As part of my Frenzy Friday last week, I went into Chicago to “get my hair done” and had an axial CT scan of my sinuses. Before leaving the hospital, I asked for a copy of my CT scan films and I was told that they’re issued on CD’s now. I inserted the CD into my computer and I went on a flying journey through my head from top to bottom (axial). I also went to In Good Comany for an “interview.”
In Good Company is touted as the “professional” gay and lesbian dating service. I can no longer sit around for Romeo to come knocking on my door. So I took the jump to check the place out. The interview was about an hour long. The questions I felt were a bit empty and shallow and her “turn-around” diagnosis as to the man I have been looking for seemed to fit just about any candidate that would walk through the door. Well, I got a voice mail message yesterday afternoon confirming a time to meet Tim in Evanston for dinner at 7:30 PM. We’ll see how it goes. It’s time for me to start enjoying life with someone.
I will admit now that my trip to San Francisco was a bit disheartening by the fifth day I was there. I kept saying to myself, “I can no longer go on vacations by myself.” There was so much to enjoy in San Francisco and no one to enjoy the beautiful sights and sounds and gorgeous weather with. The walks I took through the neighborhoods, the rides on the cable cars, the “F” Line to The Castro Ditrict, the bars in The Castro, 2223 Restaurant, the hiking through Yosemite Park, all would have been enjoyable with the other someone. But I digress. It was this trip that I took that led me to take the initiative to actively seek someone. I’ve been a part of so many GLBT social organizations, but all I have established are good friendships. And there were some friendships that went further than I wanted and what I feared would happen happened, i.e. “Alex.”
I’ve never been on a blind date before. At least not one where I know nothing of this person except his name and likes. I’ve met others from Match.com, which was back in 2005, but nothing since. So, in the hopes of not becoming the “40 Year Old Virgin” this June, I am taking the plunge and going on a blind date Thursday night in Evanston, thanks to “In Good Company. ”
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Well, shucks. You could have asked me to go! Next time. Call
Steven says: NOW you tell me!
I’ve got my fingers crossed that you will be in very good company!
Best wishes and big HUGS! I hope it goes well!
Steve Carell is pretty hot. I am not sayin’, I am just sayin’.
They give you the images on CDs now? Dang, so high tech! You should’ve just handing them a flash drive or something. Or provide you an email with a link where you can download pictures! ahaha!
Blind date! Woohoo!!! Let us know all about it! I don’t think I’ve ever gone on a blind date before. Okay, maybe I have, but it’s been at least a decade or two!
Oh have plenty fun Steven!!!! BTW, what day is your bd in June? I must know this information! heh.
i think a blind date sound rather adventuresome. good luck
CD radiology? who knew?
I’ve never been on a blind date, before, either. Sounds exciting, and you’ll have to let us know how it goes. Isn’t it crazy how things are on CD’s now?
Steven says: Actually, it’s scary how CT scans are on CD’s now.
Well I am just waiting with baited-breath to find out the details. Tomorrow I am expecting good news. Regardless, have yourself a good time.
I know blind dates can be a little unnerving, actually any first date for that matter. For what it’s worth here’s some advice: Let go of trying to do the “right” thing. In my experience I’ve learned things go better (not just dates btw) when I get out of my own way. But that’s me.
Good luck! And have fun.
Popping in to check on the Blind Date. I hope it went well! I was thinking and sending positive vibes. Didja feel em’?!
Actually the date is tonight. (Thursday)
I always found blind dates to be nerve wrecking up to the point we finally met and started talking. I honestly never had a bad one after we became human.
Hope you have a blast!
-C
Good luck with the date.
No matter what happens tomorrow night, I am SO PROUD OF YOU! This is a great way to own your destiny. I’ve had good blind dates and I’ve had ho-hum blind dates, but they are very seldom fodder for nightmares.
Being a regular auditioner, I’m probably a little more used to the idea of walking into this type of situation. Just remember what I always have to remind myself before every audition:
1.You’re not walking in with strikes against you.
2.They *want* to love you.
3.If it’s a match or not is completely out of your control.
4. They don’t know you well enough for this to be personal.
And keep auditioning! I’m so proud of you, pookie! Lerve!
Exactly what Gregory said!! Yes, I, too am so proud of you!!
I have been on one blind date in my entire life. It worked out pretty well. I’m sitting here beside him right now.
Good luck, sweetie!!