Steven – UPDATED

I am currently searching to find love and a sense of “balance” in my life. Attracting friends has never been a problem because of my personality and constant support. Though I have lots of friends, it’s important to have at least that one man who truly understands me. Someone I can share my innermost feelings with and don’t have to “wear” or express an “artifical facade” to. I’m ready and able to experience romance and a powerful “spark” with that special man. I’d like you to take me somewhere I’ve never/rarely been…a pleasant place…mentally, spiritually, even geographically. You will be gregarious, energetic, even scholarly, with a personality and a sense of humor.

I have a penchant for a healthy dose of intimacy. I’m looking for a man who’s down-to-earth and enjoys the simple things. Overall, it’s important for me to be with a man who is cheerful and has an optimistic look on life. Although having a vision of what I want can be helpful, the risk is that my rush to find the perfect man can get in the way of loving a real-life imperfect man. It won’t come naturally to me, but I am more likely to find what I want if I can sit back, “go with the flow,” and see where dating leads me. Like all men, I have my strengths as well as my quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, I want to find that guy who will love and accept me. Someone who invests in getting to know me one-on-one will shatter my somewhat-shy exterior and discover my sensual and romantic nature.

Most people who know me would probably agree that I’m a genuine, thoughtful, fun, and humorous guy. I’m a “big picture” person. Life makes no sense if not viewed from the larger dimension. To a very large fault of my own, I ALWAYS over-extend myself in the pursuit of not only helping people and organizations I care for, but in the hopes that someday someone may want to get to know me better.